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The Top 6 Things to Look For On Your Next Visit Home For the Holidays

Monday, December 7th, 2009

Most people as they age want to stay independent and remain in their own homes. This is no longer just a dream. There are many services now available to help elders age in place. As a result, most people can remain independent in their own homes far longer than in the past. The key is to know when an elderly loved one is beginning to need some help.

 

Understanding that aging is a continuum requiring some adjustments is the first step in assuring that elders can maintain the independence they so desperately want. In most instances, a decline in their ability to perform small, daily activities is usually the first sign that a person’s needs are changing. Here are some warning signs that an aging loved one may need some help.

 

  • Grocery Shopping and Meal Preparation
    • Is the refrigerator empty? Is food old or moldy? Is basic nutrition being ignored? Are meals being skipped?

 

  • Housework
    • Is there a change in the way the house is being kept? Is the once clean and tidy home showing signs of neglect?

 

  • Transportation
    • Is the individual having “close calls” or accidents? Are people honking? Do they act confused in traffic? Do they drive too slowly?

 

  • Personal Hygiene
    • Is the person wearing the same clothes day after day? Are clothes clean? Does he/she still care about grooming – showering, washing hair, etc.

 

  • Money Management
    • Are bills piling up? Are they being paid on a timely basis?

 

  • Medication
    • Does your loved one remember to take daily medication on schedule and as directed?

 

These very common signs of aging are, in and of themselves, not cause for alarm. Yet once the number of signs starts to increase, family members should develop a strategy for making sure their loved ones needs are being met. Assistance with any of these tasks is widely available – whether it be from family, friends, neighbors or professional caregivers. It is comforting to know that the majority of people, with just a little bit of help, can retain their independence and continue to age in place.

 

 

Being mindful of the first initial signs of aging allows families and loved ones to help the elderly maintain their independence and quality of life at home – right where they want to be.

 

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A New Study Documents the Negative Emotional, Physical and Financial Impacts of Caregiving on Boomer Women

Thursday, December 3rd, 2009

Women have changed. Boomers today are very different than female caregivers of previous generations. They are still the primary caregivers of their aging relatives but they also work, have children of their own and more of them are divorced and have fewer support structures. This results in very stressful situations for them and their families.

The International Longevity Center recently released “Caregiving in America: The Health Consequences on Boomer Women”.  The brief provides statistics that show the negative health, financial and social consequences that women caregivers of the baby boom generation face now and will continue to face as the demand for family caregiving increases with the aging of the population. 

The report states:

 

Reduced savings, reduced employment, earlier retirement, high out-of-pocket expenses of providing care, and increased likelihood of poverty are par for the course among many boomer women providing care to family members.

 

The stress and pressures resulting from caregiving may result in increased depression and significant health issues as well.

 

This is a very depressing picture and with the aging of America it is only going to continue to get worse. People who are caregiving need help. They are taking on more responsibilities as more and more aging people are staying in their homes and counting on their families for support. If the government were to pay for the services provided by our nation’s female caregivers, it would cost taxpayers between $207 billion and $263 billion annually.

 

What can be done? This report recommends 3 key approaches:

1.    Families must do more to plan for their aging and the aging of their loved ones. Families must talk more with their aging relatives about their wishes and plans for the future. Researching options and having a plan agreed to by everyone can greatly reduce the stress from a health care crisis. As women are helping their loved ones through their aging issues, it is critical they also start to put a plan together for their own successful aging.

2.    Employers should establish a clear dialogue with employees about their eldercare needs, and be committed to providing supportive resources that are needed. On-site eldercare programs, referral services, and subsidies for adult day care are among the possibilities. Alternative work arrangements are often very helpful to caregivers.

3.    Policymakers at all levels of government need to do more to fund initiatives to help caregivers.

 

Boomer women have always had to lead the way to change our culture through the ‘60s and on. They will do so again as more and more begin to accept the caregiver role and see all the needs that exist that aren’t being met. Hopefully, we will see a change for the better for family caregivers. To read the complete study, please click here.    

 

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The business community still doesn’t get it when it comes to elder care…

Tuesday, September 22nd, 2009

As I talk with businesses regarding the impact elder care is having on their employees including increased absences, late attendance, lower productivity and increased stress, they tell me they had an elder care lunch and learn six months ago so they are all set. No, they are not!

Elder care and its impact on the workplace is so much larger than a single annual lunch and learn. The sandwich generation is being pulled in so many different directions. They are juggling multiple jobs including their job that helps them earn a living, their caregiving job taking care of their aging relatives and possibly their child raising job. Businesses need to provide more support to get the most from their employed caregivers. Many of these caregivers are baby boomers who are in leadership roles in their organization. No business will want to lose the value of their expertise due to their personal life challenges. Businesses can help.

Services may include flex time, free information and referral services, education, geriatric care management services, and elder mediation services. Just imagine a workplace where a man who wants to move his mother to Maine can make one call and an elder care expert can put a package together of the top facilities that can best meet their needs while he stays focused at work.  Or a woman who thinks she may have to leave her job because her caregiving role has become so great, can speak with an elder care expert who can help her get the resources she needs and develop a plan so she can stay at work knowing her mother is being well cared for. This is possible and it is possible today.

For businesses, offering services is a win/win. They not only help existing employees enabling them to perform at their best, but they also help themselves and their recruiting and retention efforts. Studies have shown for every $1 spent on elder care services, they receive a benefit of $3 to $5 in increased productivity and reduced costs.  

Elder care and its impact on the workplace are only going to grow in the coming years. Top companies are starting to realize they have a role to play. Maureen Corcoran, VP of Diversity at Prudential Financial says it best: “Elder care resources help employees care for their loved ones and continue to care about their companies. A smart organization educates employees about its business needs so they understand the best way to contribute over time. Likewise, it educates itself about its employees’ life needs so it can support and retain them over time. If an employee is forced to choose between caring for a loved one and devoting themselves to work, the company will lose. That loss will most certainly be in work quality and, more deleterious in the long term, in the loss of the hearts and minds of employees in their commitment to the firm.” 

Good companies care about their employees. Let’s hope that more start to see the value in helping their employees do a better job at home so they can do a better job at work.

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Welcome to LifeStages’ blog!

Wednesday, February 25th, 2009

Welcome to LifeStages’ blog! Let me introduce myself - I am Lisa Fuller and the owner of LifeStages. LifeStages is a company designed to help families with the many and varied challenges of aging. I recently took a giant leap and sold my partnership in a successful home care business which I ran for 8 ½ years because I have such a passion for this idea and I wanted to focus 100% on creating services that could help families no matter where they were in the aging continuum. I’ve seen so much need for smart, helpful and affordable solutions  as a Home Care provider, and I simply believe that our services - which combine advice and support with actually rolling up our sleeves to help you get it all done , are essential to the quality of our lives and those of our families.

This blog is an important aspect of what I do because it will allow me to share with you some of the challenges I see on a regular basis and the steps you can take if you are experiencing some of the same issues. I hope this means of communication will become a forum for discussion as well. Please send me reactions and questions and I will make sure to answer them here so we all can learn from one another. Hopefully this is a place where you will come as a point of reference for all people in southern Maine struggling with caring for an aging loved one while balancing all of their other responsibilities.

Initially you will be hearing from me, but I will also be having guest blogger’s who can answer questions on specific topics. Our LifeStages team consists of Nurse Case Managers, Geriatric Care Managers and Certified Elder Mediators. I also have a network of Occupational Therapists, Physical Therapists, Long Term Care Insurance experts and other experts in the elder care arena. Between all of us, we should be able to get you the answers you are looking for.

So check back regularly.  I look forward to hearing from you!

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